The perfect kiss will help lock you in with the man or woman of your dreams and will put you down in their memory banks forever!

But how do you achieve the perfect kiss? Each person has different feelings about the way they like to be kissed. A general rule for the first kiss is to be soft and brush their lips gently, without thrusting your tongue into your partner’s mouth as if you were playing tonsil hockey.

Once you are in a relationship, go outside your comfort zone and ask your partner what they think would be the perfect kiss. For many women, and men as well, it’s important to set the mood for the perfect kiss.

While rushing your loved one into a heated kiss when you first walk in the door after work can be very stimulating and arousing, using this method every time may cause your partner to withdraw.

Here are a few tips to help you:

First, you need to set the mood. Whether that means taking your arms, wrapping them around your partner and gazing into their eyes for even a brief time, putting on music that you both love and cuddling on the couch or dancing in the living room, just do it.

Once the mood is set, gently take your partner’s face into your hands, using one of them to gently run your fingers through their hair lovingly, then softly kiss the surface of their lips, not seeking anything deeper.

As soon as you have reached that moment, gently pull away to gaze into your partner’s eyes again for a brief moment before you venture to the lips again.

Next, gently rest your lips again on your partner’s, slowly taking them between yours in a soft sucking motion. Do this for a short time before you proceed to the next step.

Remember, whatever you do, don’t just thrust your tongue into your partner’s mouth upon first touch. Once you have achieved a massaging of their lips for a few minutes, gently glide your tongue into your partner’s mouth, letting it play with their tongue as if the two were dancing together.

Every so often (but not overdoing it), thrust your tongue deep into your partner’s mouth and then gently pull away to again mingle with their tongue. This move can be a very sexy and intoxicating move when used correctly and during the right moment in the kiss.

Don’t keep your tongue in your partner’s mouth for the entire time. Keep changing positions in the way you hold them, caressing your partner’s backside without making it a sexual overture and moving back and forth from dancing with their tongue to massaging their lips.

Caress your partner’s hair again; cradle them in your arms while you are gazing into your partner’s eyes, and then begin the kiss again. Once you get the hang of this, ask your partner what they like and don’t like again. Kissing is an art and each individual person has different preferences.

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